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Dealing with difficult people tips

One of my favorite hobbies is resolving common myths and uncovering their underlying truth. The truth of everything in our universe is based on nature and its laws which surround us and sustain us in life. When I uncover a truth it grounds me reminding me we are part of a big system of Nature with specific natural rules which determine everything. Neither Good or Bad So for example, a rainy day is not really bad since it provides moisture to balance the earth’s eco systems. A sunny day is not really good either because it causes all kinds of things like drought, food shortages and sunburns. In nature such events are neither bad or good. They are simply nature balancing its systems to ensure its survival and evolution. The Milk Myth How about the myth of milk…the myth cow’s milk is good for you and children. It is full of nutrients. Right? The truth is cow’s milk is the most common food allergy children develop. The Motivation Myth Now how about the myth of m...

Fear of taking decision and moving forward

Fear, Most of the times, it’s because of your past. You think you’ve moved on, but for some reason you still gawk at the scars it leaves behind and you hate it, it’s still there. It haunts you, every moment in life, everyday you think about it. It’s your past, you’ve already post it down, and unable to erase it, walk out of it. It haunts you. Its that image, in your head, you can never leave precedent, that thought that always occurs to you before you make a verdict close to being related to your past. It could be love, money, relationships, and all that, but it’s there. And it haunts you,After months of trying you finally grasp the idea that maybe  it’s hypothetical to be that way, and it’s that one thing that might help you make the right decisions but it might also be, that one thing, that makes you step back and let go of the sever, because of the superfluous “cost” . “Love is not easy” they say, and it...

Why you need to quit your habits

Whereas considerations on theory and practice of "How to abandon a habit?" are quite common for many people, the question of "Why should I abandon a habit?" in the first place, is often not given its due attention. At first, that question might seem unimportant. If one should consider for example the benefits of quitting smoking, at least one such benefit is self-evident – the eventual improved health status of the smoker. This is normally the case of habits perceived as negative and we usually do not need much reflection to get convinced about them. It is not the case, however, when it comes to positive or neutral habits. Why should we bother to abandon the first and not try to cultivate them instead? Why should we take the effort to get rid of the latter instead of live on with them? Do we actually need to look for answers to those questions at all? I believe we do. For whatever choice we make in our lives, whether conscious or unconscious, there is always an unde...